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      Our 7 yr old son is the victim of severe sexual assualt

      Griffinfamily
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      Posted by Griffinfamily

      on Feb 24, 2011

      Our son was the victim of multiple sexual assualts. 3 Teen boys on our block lured the younger children into a "club" and began to rape them. They would rape, beat, sodomize, tie up, and force the children to perform sex acts on each other and the 3 teens. Some of the victims were sodomized with sitcks or wooden objects that left splinters in their rectums. This made things very painful to sit or use the restroom. That is something our 7 yr old son is still struggling with. The victims were forced to drink urine, eat feces, and drink water from a ditch. The 3 teens have been charged and are in the process of the juvinile court system. Our son became suicidal once this all came to light. He told his psychiatrist that he wanted to die and how he planed to take his life. He almost never makes it through a full day of school. I sleep on the couch so he can sleep with my husband in our bed, because he is scared to sleep alone. I was laid off from work because of constantly being called out of work to go to my son at school. My husband has started working 6 days a week to help keep us afloat, but we are steadly sinking. We are 2 months behind on rent and our truck is having problems with it's fuel pump. I can easily verify all this information for anyone who is willing to help us. We are in danger of being kicked out of our home. We need a new vehicle. The medical bills are piling up. Our hearts are broken beyond repair and we are hanging by a thread. Everyday we live only to see our son through to the next day. We are doing our best to stay strong for him. Money issues make this just that much more difficult. Should we become homeless, I don't know what will become of us. God Bless.
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        maverica
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        10. maverica posted on Oct 11, 2011
        I am truly sorry my heart weeps to hear that sorry and I will pray for you. Have You gone through your local church?
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        9. ComputerGirl posted on Mar 10, 2011
         in response to Griffinfamily...   Did you get my messages yesterday? I'm still learning this website but I don't see them listed in my area. Sincerely, ComputerGirl
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        8. ComputerGirl posted on Mar 9, 2011
         in response to Griffinfamily...   I have access to a true work-at-home website. There's jobs! Lots of work-at-home jobs. The computer requirements are stiff. My new laptop won't meet all companies requirements. I've paid for the use of this website and I can get to great information. I'm thinking of one work-at-home job that pays for watching tv and reporting anything you see that's bad for children. It's a children's network and they're dead serious about their programing.I can't remember the requirements....Tell me, how many words a minute do you type? --I need more info about you but I don't want you to feel uncomfortable.Think about it and let me know if you'll answer some questions. I may be able to match you with a work-at-home job. I can't promise a job but I'm willing to check into it. ComputerGirl8
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        7. ComputerGirl posted on Mar 9, 2011
         in response to Griffinfamily...   You are a precious person! Your son is blessed to have you for a mother. I would like to say something and the reason why is: There's a lot of pressure on parents today. Some don't understand the positive or negative impact they have on their children. The Love of God is wonderful for your son to know. But you and your husband are the two people who can help your son know the love of God. A person's opinion of who God is is normally shaped by the relationship the person had with his/her parents. Through his father and mother he will come to know God's love,
        God's approval, God's forgivness, and God's mercy. You two parents are so important in his life. Please remember this even on days you think you're doing him no good. Please hold fast to the power of being a parent in your son's life. Surely, your son must feel the world is an unsafe place after what he's been through. Seeing and experiencing love between you and your husband can do wonders for him. The love flowing between his parents will help him feel safe again. No easy journey but an important journey for your son to travel. For some reason I care deeply for you and your family. Please know that anything I say I do so with love. Sincerely, ComputerLady8
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        6. Griffinfamily posted on Mar 9, 2011
         in response to ComputerGirl...   Thank you so much for your kind words. I did get on FreeCharityCars.org and have got over 200 votes! Thank you so much for telling me of that site. My computer is old and is mostly only used for email and light internet. I have looked into a few work from home sites but most want money from you first. We let our son know constantly that he did nothing wrong and that none of this was his fault! He goes to his doctors twice a week to make sure he stays on track with his psychotherapy. I feel so bad for him today he had his tonsils and adnoids out. So he is in pain and cant eat solid food. My poor baby! It's snowing pretty badly here today and I'm praying my husband gets off at a decent hour so that when we go to pick him up it won't be so dark. His truck is dead dead dead...and little hope of fixing it. Trying to keep our heads up and pray every day. I want my son to learn that God hears our prayers and will help us if we have faith. If he learns to lean on God then something good has come of these hard times.
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        5. Starshine posted on Mar 9, 2011
         in response to ComputerGirl...   Hi there
        Have fun grocery shopping!! Need food have to do it.. I don't like to shop so stock up.
        take care
        Starshine
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        4. ComputerGirl posted on Mar 9, 2011
        Hi everyone! I so hope you're having a great day! As for me, I have to go to town. I'd rather not but I need to buy groceries! I need food in the house! Ever been there? Take care and I'll be in touch.
        Please feel free to write to me. Sincerely, ComputerGirl
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        3. ComputerGirl posted on Mar 9, 2011
        Mrs. Griffin, I feel the need to say this to you as a mother of an abused child. "If I were you, I'd tell my son a 1,000 times a day that what happen was not his fault". Children can't seperate what is and is not their fault. Children blame themselves for many things they shouldn't blame themselves for. And, as a result, they grow up with misplaced guilt. As an adult, they don't know the load they carry because the misplaced guilt was a part of their childhood. They've had it all their lives. They don't know life without it. Please tell him, and tell him often, this wasn't his fault!!!
        Sincerely, ComputerGirl8
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        2. ComputerGirl posted on Mar 9, 2011
        I feel sad regret for your son and for you, the parents. There aren't words to express the terrible things these teens did....Can you give me some info about what kind job you can do from home? Are you on a computer that's no older than a couple of years? Please let me hear from you. Oh, yes, have you checked out FreeCharityCars.org? Let me know. I'll help you out with applying for a car and getting some votes. I'll do what I can for you.
        Sincerely,
        ComputerGirl8
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        1. Starshine posted on Feb 25, 2011

        Hello and I am so sorry and hope he can recover in time. That is horrible to have done to anyone and then to a little boy.

        You are in my prayers.

        See if modestneeds.com can help with rent and or car repair.

        http://help-with-rent-security-deposit-utility-bills.starshine1.aidpage.com/

        http://job-ideas.starshine1.aidpage.com/

        See about help with medicine from these too places.

        http://www.friendsofman.org/

        What Friends of Man Does

        Friends of Man helps people of all ages with a large variety of needs:

            * Mobility Equipment: (prostheses, wheelchairs, van lifts, and modifications, ramps, home modifications)
            * Medical Equipment and Procedures
            * Hearing Aids, Dentures,Glasses
            * Basic Needs: Clothing for Children, Food
            * Short-term Daycare, Prescriptions, Cobra/Health Insurance
            * And More!!

         
        Maybe they can help you with saving your home or give you ideas.
         
         
        You maybe able to find work from home jobs here.
         
         
        I hope this helps you,
        God Bless
        Starshine

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